You know the old adage, fake it till you make it? How you’re supposed to live like the person you want to one day become. Carry yourself as you would were you already the successful, established person you aspire to be. Wear the clothes you will wear. Speak with the authority engendered by your many successes. Set the stage for this person you are cultivating to enter – and eventually they will take their place under the spot light.
The life changing smile
That whole faking it till you’re making it thing can start with something so easy babies regularly do it. Smile!
Whether you are smiling because you are genuinely happy or because you just plastered one on your face, you are flooding your body with feel good chemicals – dopamine, serotonin and endorphins. You automatically feel good and more relaxed.
Two way mirror
A smile is like a two-way mirror. In general, you smile because you’re feeling good. At the same time when you smile you actually make yourself feel good. And while you’re going around feeling good you’re also more energetic, which helps you become more productive.
A round for the house
Not only are those smiles you’re going around wearing helping you feel good, they’re also bringing smiles and feel good feelings to everyone around you. Smiles are contagious. Smiling faces all around, people are more inclined to like each other.
Not only that, according to the article 9 Superpowers of Your Smile from Psychology Today, smiling can make you seem courteous, likeable and competent. So if there are projects upcoming or opportunities in the offing, the person who is conceived of as likable and competent will most likely be chosen over their less captivating counterparts.
So smile and watch your world smile around you!